I’m a widow now matchmaking two terrific men, but stress I’ll be a terrible individual if I make love with them. Ask Ellie

I’m a widow now matchmaking two terrific men, but stress I’ll be a terrible individual if I make love with them. Ask Ellie Q: I’m a healthy, effective widow of 59. We have an extended, delighted marriage until he passed away 5 years before after a long, distressing diseases. We have no desire to accept …